Player interaction and press questions !

Ive been playing Fm since 08 and Im really looking foward to FM12. Im new to the fourms, so this has probably been mentioned about a 1000 times. But it really annoys me during player interaction, whether Ive been Barcelona or Aston Villa its frustrates me when a member of your backroom staff suggests that a player should try a new move. You ask him and get "Id prefer not to do that" or "I stand by what I said" Imagine Rooney telling Fergie I dont quite fancy working on my movement boss! I mean come on. Another question that is kinda silly, is when getting a new job in a foregin country you get asked about not speaking the language, it just takes realism out of it WENGER DIDNT speak a word when he came, he didnt give the response "its a universal language" or "what can you speak more slowly" Please change it SI